Development Update - 5 Months

Last week during our camping trip, Geoff turned 5 months old!

Sleep: Well, sleep is sort of a prickly issue right now. Prior to our camping trip, we were trying to to cut down on Geoff's night feedings. Since Geoff sleeps around 11 hours at night, we decided that one feeding, at this age, was not unreasonable, but two feedings was a bit much. We started by pushing the first feeding back by 30 minutes each night - but he was very ready for it and it was rarely a problem. He was going to bed at around midnight, waking around 7 or 8 to eat, and then sleeping until 10 or 11.

As the camping trip approached, we started putting him to bed a half an hour earlier each night. During the camping trip, he would go to bed at around 10, wake up around 2 to eat, and wake up around 5 again when the sun started coming up. At that point, I'd bring him into bed with me and he'd sleep/nurse until around 7:30 - 8.

Now that we're back, things have been wacky. I knew that it would take some adjustment, of course - but he's been waking 2 or sometimes 3 times a night. Some wakings are not food related at all - I mean, waking up two hours after his last feeding? Part of it is me - I thought if I got him out of bed after the 2nd time he woke up, he would eventually start stretching out his sleep - you know, he'd get tired and sleep longer. It is always that debate for me - if he wakes up after, say, 9 hours of sleep, do I keep the room dark, feed him, and put him back down knowing he'll sleep more? Or do I start his day then? Well, big mistake on my part -  he definately needs to go back down. The two days I got him up, he was cranky all day. So now, I am back to making sure he sleeps at LEAST 10 hours, and I am just going to work on pushing that first feeding back in 30 minute increments like I did before the camping trip. It worked well, so I don;t know why I didn't do that this time - except that the "average" 5 month old sleeps about 9 1/2 hours at night and I was afraid I was being selfish by putting him back down so that I could get more sleep, too. Turns out, my kid just does better with night time sleep. Well - look at his parents.... (o:

So, I'll update you on the sleep situation later. FOr now, the plan is to aim for a 9 AM wake up time, to move to an 8 AM wake up time next week so that our travel day to Florida won't be to off schedule for him (and then he'll adjust easier to waking up at 10 on Eastern time, too.) IN addition, I plan to push back his first feeding by 30 minutes each night in an effort to get back down to one feeding.

Motor Development: Geoffrey is quite the wiggle butt. He LOVES kicking those legs, and he's quite good at rolling over and roating on his blanket to get new toys. He LOVES his exersaucer now and can balance in it quite well, as well as purposefully use the toys on it. He is sometimes quite focused and intent on what he is doing. He is getting good at turning the pages of the little electronic book on his exersaucer, and tries this skill with his board books, too. He can sit by himself for short periods when you prop him into the tripod sitting position (with his arms on the ground in front of him.) He did this for the first time on the campout.  Also, since we've been back, he's become quite the crib gymnast - when we put him down for a nap, if he's overtired (which happened often between my dumb-ass getting him up earlier and adjusting to being home from the camping trip) he'll cry a lot and when we check on him, he'll be on his stomach, rotated 180 degrees, etc. etc. Fun fun fun (cute and funny, as long as I don't worry about his little hands and feet getting caught between the crib bars!!!!)

Speech: This has been the biggest thing... all of a sudden (literally, overnight) Geoff has started babbling with consonants! We drove home from camping on Saturday, and nothing. On Sunday, it is bababadadadablablabla all the time! He is so enamored with his new ability that he does it when he's happy and when he's sad - instead of just crying, he'll cry and babble at the same time! For three days, it was almost constant babbling (unless, of course, I pulled out the video camera). He even wakes himself up at night babbling - practicing in his sleep (which also probably contributes to the new sleep problems.  Now that he is more use to it, he doesn't do it quite as often - but it is so cute!

I can tell we're gearing up for the next 6 months - sitting, crawling, standing, walking.... he is developing so quickly!!!!

Babbling

I know I am behind on blogging but I just have to tell you - recently - like yeaterda, Geoffrey has discovered how to make babbling sounds with consonants - ma - du - da - ba ba ba - and today, he is obsessed with this new skill! Whether he is happy or sad, he is babbling!

When he went down for his nap, he cried for five minutes - but cried and bablled at the same time.... "waaaa ba ba ba waaaaaaa ba da da..... cry cry cry wail ....ba ba aaaa" so cute!!!!

Sleep

Ok - The real Ferberizing begins!

Naps - So Geoff is now pretty good about taking naps in his crib. We are out and about a lot, so our goal is one nap a day in his crib, which seems to work well. The other naps he takes in his stroller or car seal, unless we are home.

Night - He's always been really good about falling asleep at night, so no issue there. His current routine is a feeding at 11:30, followed by a book and a song, and then in bed by around 12:15. He usually sleeps until about 10:30 - 11:30 the following day.

Middle of the Night - So here is the new part. Geoff can go 9 - 10 hours without eating, so he only needs to wake up once to eat (if at all.) At this point, I am ok, with one night feeding, but I'd ideally like to eliminate it by Disney World - we'll see though.

So what we're doing is extending the time between feedings - I know he can go 8 hours, he's done it before - but we started with 5 hours. So the first night, I fed him at 11:30, and was not going to feed him again until 4:30. He woke up at 2:30 (He must have known something was up because he never wakes up at 2:30!) So we used the progressive wait approach (Ferberize). We started with 15 minutes, because that's what we're up to a nap time. He cried for 15 minutes - so I went in to tell him I loved him, but I didn't pick him up and I didn't feed him. Next, Grant took the monitor down stairs with him (he was still awake) and came up at 3:05. Geoff was still crying while Grant walked up the stairs, but when Grant reached the door... silence - Geoff had fallen asleep! Grant waited 10 minutes to be sure, but indeed, Geoffrey was asleep. He didn't wake up to eat until 7:00!

Last night, I pushed back the waiting until 5:00 - and he woke up to eat at 5:30. Although we probably could have used the progressive wait method again, and not fed him until later, I didn't because I am ok with feeding him once at this point (and he didn't wake up again until 11:30) and beause I am going to keep pushing it out - tonight, I won't feed him until 5:30 (if he wakes up earlier, etc.)

Camping may throw a kink in it - we certainly can't let him cry at the camp ground in the middle of the night! But once we're back from camping, I'll start again with this and see how far we get by Florida. Since we'll most likely have a condo in Florida, I can still do this and not worry about his crying waking the neighbors (if it gets to that! Last night, we didn't have a middle of the night crying session, so you never know!) Hopefully by the cruise, he'll be sleeping all night - or up for just one feeding!

Sweet Potatoes

On Friday, July 10th, Geoffrey started Sweet Potatoes. We mix it in with his rice cereal, for now. He treats it pretty much the same as the rice cereal. He either lets it sit in his mouth, or chews it a bit, before eventually swallowing it. he doesn't spit it out, for the most part, but he does lose interest pretty quickly.

After Geoffrey's appointment we went on bought a food processor and some ice cube trays so we can make our own baby food. We now have 64 frozen cubed portions of sweet potatoes ready for Mr. Geofferson. Thanks, Daddy!

4 1/2 month Doctor Visit

On Thursday, Geoffrey had his next Doctor's visit with Dr. Chang. He did really well. It was nap time, so he fell asleep in the waiting room. For once, we didn't mind a long wait (there were a few newborns who always get priority after lunch) because it enabled Geoff to sleep for about a half an hour. When Dr. Chang came in, he was just ready to wake up, but still dazed enough to not resist too much when she checked his ears and mouth and everything.

He now weighs 16 pounds, 9 ounces, (75th percentile) and he is 26 1/2 inches long (90th percentile). So he is doing really well. Geoffrey's new suggested diet consists of fruits and veggies twice a day, however, this is still just practice. We're supposed to introduce a new fruit or veggie every week so that we can watch for allergies. It is also ok if we choose to skip a day because we're out because he really is not gaining nutrition from it yet.

Also, she says that Geoffrey can certainly go 10 hours without needed to eat now, so I need to get better about letting him go back to sleep without feeding him.

At the end of the visit, Geoffrey got a few more vaccines. Again, having just woken from a nap helped because he was in a pretty good mood. First he had his oral rotovirus vaccine - which he treated like he pretty much treats his food - he let it sit in his mouth without too much swallowing. But it eventually went down. Then he got two shots - PCV and DTAP (which can be painful). He handled these shots well - not getting too too upset. He cried after the first one but was easily distracted from his cries. The second one he cried more, but we could then pick him up right away, so daddy made him feel much better.

This round of vaccines were the same as the vaccines he got 2 months ago at his 2 1/2 month visit. This time, he did seem to have less of an appetite and he slept a lot more for about 2 days, but otherwise he seemed fine.

Chip

When we were at Goofy's Kitchen, Chip came up to Geoff and tried to engage him. Geoff had looked at most of the characters with fascination, but this time, h just wouldn't look at Chip. He was too busy staring and smiling... at me! After a few minutes, CHip shrugged and took a pen and wrote on our table cloth "He only has eyes for you...."

Ah... I love my boy.

Starting Solids

At Geoff's last visit, Dr. Chang told us to start feeding him rice cereal once he turned four months. She said it was important that he start learning how to eat solids because some babies will get so accustomed to drinking their meals that they won't adjust well when they nutritionally need solids. (I have also read somewhere that at 4 months, babies are still pretty malleable, but that the older they get, the harder it is to change routines.) Basically, solids right now or "dessert" - they are not for nutrition, but for practice.

For some reason that I have not been able to explain clearly, I was resistant to the idea of starting solids yet. I'm sure these contribute - but I don't know if they really explain it: I love breastfeeding, and do not look forward to the day when he won't need it anymore... right now, I know he is getting healthy food, but once he starts eating solids, you never know... the practicality of it - his diapers are easy to deal with and don't smell bad (and, weird as this sounds - I think I am going to miss his newborn - exclusively breastfed diapers...) ... I feel proud of myself that he is so healthy and thriving because of me, and I think in my brain I connected his lower (percentile) weight at his last doctor's visit to the fact that he is only breastfed and she wants him to start solids - so I feel like maybe I am not adequate and he needs more now (instead of at 6 months.) I know many of those reasons are silly, but it was just how I was feeling. (Grant says it is his first step towards moving out and that is why I am so resistant... hee hee)

Anyway, we decided to star solids on July 4th. The main reason was because we have a Doctor's appointment today (July 9) and I figured it was best that we at least attempted it before the doctor visit so we could discuss any issues with Dr. Chang (rather then start after and have to wait a whole month to see Dr. Chang if there ARE issues. Of course, she is great about returning calls, but still. It was a good kick in the pants for me!

We are starting Geoff on rice cereal, and he has had it on Saturday, Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday so far. Even on day one, he didn't spit it out - but he did make the cutest faces and sort of work it around in his mouth before swallowing. He definitely needs to learn how to swallow - I guess that's what this practice is for - but I do think the majority of it ended up in his tummy. (I guess I was thinking he might just spit it out completely, showing that he wasn't ready for solids yet - but alas - he did not.) On Sunday he started crying after about two bites, but the rest of the time he ate more.

We are starting out with 2 tablespoons of rice cereal mixed with an ounce of breast milk once a day, and he eats about half of it. We'll see what Dr. Chang says, but after about a week, we'll probably up it to twice a day.

My little boy is growing up!

20 week thoughts

On Friday, Geoff will be 20 weeks old.

Although he can roll over, he doesn't do it often. He has started playing in his exersaucer for short periods. He loves the toys, but he gets frustrated because he can't balance very well yet.

He works hard to scoot his knees under his body - he might be crawling before we know it! He also likes to "walk" when you hold his hands.

He loves to hold his feet now (and sometimes chew on them) - especially when you are trying to change his diaper.

He laughs a lot now - sometimes you can make him laugh when you tickle him or make silly noises.

He also started this silly slouching trick - when you try to hook him into his car seat - he slouches and scoots down way low - and laughs... It is both annoying and cute - I think he is trying to be funny.

Sleep - his sleep is variable. When he first got back from Vegas, he continued waking up twice at night. Then, he moved to waking up only once - sleeping 5 - 7 hours between feedings. However, this is not consistent - as the last few night he's started waking up again twice.

Disneyland Trips #8 & #9

Tuesday, June 30th

Grant, Geoff, and I went to Disneyland last Tuesday. It wasn't too crowded. We got there in the afternoon. WE started out at Disneyland, riding Pirates, The Haunted Mansion, and Winnie the Pooh, before heading over to DCA to watch the Electrical Parade. Geoff LOVED the parade. He fell asleep while waiting for it, but woke up to watch it and couldn't stop staring at the bright lights. After the parade, we went back to Disneyland and rode its a small world. On our way out, we hopped on the Flying Dumbos for Geoffrey's first "flight," since there was no line. (I remember repeating my story to Grant about seeing Michael Jackson on the flying dumbos. I'm watching Micheal's memorial as I type this.)

Tuesday, July 7th

We went to Disneyland with Angela, Andrew, and Cori to celebrate Andrew's 10th birthday. We met at Goofy's Kitchen at the Disneyland Hotel and had a yummy buffet brunch. While there, we were visited by Pluto, Fairy Godmother, Chip, Dale, Belle, Balloo, and, of course, Goofy. After lunch, we went over to Disneyland via the monorail. Once there, Angie sat with Geoff while Grant, Cori, Andrew, and I rode Star Tours. After that, Andrew tried to get into Jedi training. Unfortunately, it was VERY crowded and he didn't get picked. He was pretty bummed, so we quickly moved on - after a spin on Buzz Lightyear, Andrew was happy again.

We headed over to DCA so that Andrew could ride Tower of Terror. He rode with Grant while Angie, Cori, Geoffrey and I rode Monster's Inc. Next, we headed over to California Screamin'. Andrew and I rode (and sat in the front!) while Cori and Angie rode the carousel and Grant sat with Geoffers. Then Andrew rode the Maliboomer as a single rider. We all saw It's Tough to be a Bug, next. Then, Grant, Cori, and Geoff went to stake out a bench for the parade while Andrew, Angie, and I went on Tower of Terror.

While we waited for the parade, Angie and Grant went to get dinner (soup in bread bowls) while Cori and Andrew played in the SS Rustworthy. We ate dinner and then watched the Electric Parade. Geoff was so cute. He stared in awe again at the entire parade. When it ended, I handed him to Grant and he fell asleep within a minute. SO CUTE!

We headed back to Disneyland again. Cori slept in the stroller and I carried Geoff in his carrier. Andrew finally got to ride Indiana Jones with Angie and Grant while I sat aith Geoffrey and Cori. Then, Angie, Geoff, Drew, and I rode the Haunted Mansion while Grant sat with Cori and watched Fantasmic. We exited Haunted Mansion just as Fantasmic ended, so instead of dealing with the crowds - Angie and I sat with Geoff and Cori while Grant and Andrew went and rode Splash Mountain and Winnie the Pooh.

All in all, it was a great day. I think Andrew had an awesome birthday!

4th of July

What a fun day we had! Geoff, Grant, Gary, Belle, Lyon and I attended the Huntington Beach 4th of July Parade! We stopped by to see the Mosich's and sat in front of the hotel on PCH and 8th and watched the parade go by. It was a nice spot because it was shady and on the grass - which was good for us and the dogs. True, we didn't have the clearest vantage point of the parade, but I really enjoyed it!

That afternoon, we went over to DOnna and Gary's and had a yummy hot dog bbq followed by some wii. Poor Belle was wigging out from the fireworks (although Lyon couldn't care less!) At nine, we went home and headed up on the roof to watch the fireworks (last year of that for a while - I don't see myself taking a toddler up there!)

After the fireworks, we went back downstairs and watched the Macy's fireworks and Geoffrey played in his exercauser for the first time! Fun! He really liked it!

All in all, it was a very fun day - with lots of first for Geoffrey!